Relational dynamics
SENSAÏ is for everyone, whatever their relational situation. This page covers one theme among others — not an audience that defines the product.
The situation
The same argument comes back with different words. Or this is the third relationship ending at the same point, for reasons that seemed unrelated.
At work as in private life, you end up in the same role: the one who smooths things over, the one who absorbs, the one who leaves before being left.
What is really going on
A relational pattern is only visible in repetition. Taken one at a time, each episode has a local and convincing explanation — which is exactly why it lasts so long.
What repeats is almost never the partner or the colleague: it is a way of entering a relationship, learned early, and effective in its original context.
What SAM can do here — and what it cannot
This is exactly the ground where memory between sessions earns its keep: SAM sees a theme return across sessions and names it, instead of treating each episode as an isolated incident.
What it cannot: speak to the other person, arbitrate a conflict, or do couples therapy. It works with you, on your side of it.
For a structured read on your relational dynamics, MKN Coaching also publishes the RDP (Relational Dynamics Profile), a non-diagnostic psychometric assessment, separate from SENSAÏ: https://rdp.betterlifewithmk.com
When to see a professional
Some signals are not coaching territory: sadness that will not lift for weeks, sleep or appetite durably broken, anxiety that stops you functioning, rising substance use, thoughts of harming yourself.
In those cases the right address is a doctor, a psychologist or a psychiatrist — not an AI. SAM says so when the signals accumulate, and presses if the situation persists. It does not simply keep coaching.
Going further, with a human
SAM works with you inside the app, and the essentials stay free. If you also want individual, paid support with an actual human, Malachie runs coaching sessions outside SENSAÏ.
It is one-to-one time with Malachie directly, to go deep on one specific subject. Book a session: https://tidycal.com/malachiekengne5/individual-coaching-session